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Therapy & coaching · Calgary
A clearer view of
what comes next.
I'm Lauren Harnett — Canadian Certified Counsellor and Professional Certified Coach. Whether you're hurting or you're hungry, the work starts the same way: one honest conversation.
Free, 15 minutes, no commitment. Or call 403-708-1456.
In crisis right now? Call or text 988 — 24/7.More support
Lauren Harnett, CCC · PCC
Top 15 Coaches in Calgary — Influence Digest, 2023
What brings you here?
Five doors. Pick the one that sounds like you — you can always change your mind.
01
I feel stuck, or I'm struggling
Anxiety, overwhelm, grief, old hurt that still runs the show.
Integrated
Individual counselling
Trauma-informed · EMDR
Lauren, Shey, Casey
02
Our relationship needs help
Same argument, different night. We work on communication, trust, and the way back to each other.
Connected
Marriage counselling
Gottman Levels 1 & 2
Lauren, Shey, Doyin
03
We're getting married
Have the conversations most couples reach years too late — money, family, expectations, intimacy.
Loved
Premarital counselling
SYMBIS · Gottman Checkup
Lauren, Doyin
04
Our home is tense
Slammed doors or silent dinners. We work on how your family talks, fights, and finds its way back to each other.
Connected
Family therapy
Trauma-informed · Attachment
Lauren, Shey, Doyin
05
I want to perform at my best
Leadership, transition, competition. Sharper focus, steadier nerves, and someone who holds you to it.
Perform
Executive, life & sport coaching
ICF PCC · COR.E Dynamics
Lauren
Meet Lauren
Two practices, one person — and you don't have to know which one you need.
I trained as a counsellor and as a coach because people don't arrive in tidy categories. Some weeks we're processing something old; some weeks we're building something new. I'm trauma-informed, direct when it helps, and I'll always tell you honestly if I'm not the right person.
Read my story- CCC
- PCC
- CPC
- EMDR
- ELI-MP
- COR.E Dynamics
- Gottman L1 & L2
- SYMBIS
Four people, one front door.
Clearview started as just me. It's grown into a small team because one practitioner can't be everything, and I'd rather introduce you to the right person than stretch to fit. I only hire people I'd trust with my own clients.
Shey Balzer CCC (pending)
Ask for Shey for family therapy or narrative therapy, if your family has lived across countries, or if you'd rather work in German or Croatian.
Casey Boda CCC
Ask for Casey for addiction and ADHD, guilt and shame, or boundaries, and if you'd like to work with EFT.
Adedoyin (Doyin) Omoniyi-Ojo CCC
Ask for Doyin for parenting coaching, pre-marital and relationship work, or anxiety and big life transitions.
You don't have to know which of us you need. That's my job.
“Warm, welcoming, and a completely no-pressure place to share. She has excellent insight, and asks the questions that help you answer your own concerns.”
“I had a great experience being coached by Lauren. I felt it was a safe space to discuss ideas and grow; with keeping accountability and looking at things differently.”
Organizations I've worked with
Churches, clinics, and teams I've worked alongside over the years — as a counsellor, a coach, and sometimes both.
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Not sure which door is yours?
That's exactly what the free fifteen minutes are for. We'll talk, and by the end we'll both know whether I'm the right fit — and if I'm not, I'll tell you who is, on my team or outside it.